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Confused! Is it time to get my hat?

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Mar 12, 2010
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GET YOUR HAT!
by: Michelle

Cheap men are not worth the WORK involved. A REAL man knows that dating can be expensive. AT least in the beginning. If he is comfortable enough with being a miser- he will NOT change.
He is exactly what he has shown you. Can u imagine living with someone you will fight with daily to get basic bills and expenses taken care of?
Why would you want that for yourself?
Aren't you worth much MORE than that?
Where is your self esteem? Not to equate cash with how you see yourself. But someone who wants to "date with benefits" must bring more to the table and be upfront with it.
To not want to provide you with any "benefits" such as meals, concerts and trips means he is playing you- the question is for WHAT?
Take care and stay aware. Hope you have moved ON!
Thanks for posting- Michelle


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